My November | 11.2017.

Conscious Consumerism, Finances, Lifestyle, Minimalism, Music, Personal





1. I’ve been watching Annie Tarasova’s Youtube channel for what feels like forever, since I first discovered her video on the meaning of crystals and their use in technology today. Since then, I’ve watched all her videos minus the ones about being vegan. I’ve learnt and reflected so much on intuition, minimalism, synchronicity, the moon, meditation, happiness and so much more.. Plus how truly relevant they are to the world today! Whether you believe in it or not, spirituality is interconnected and manifested into real life in powerful ways. 

I’ve always wanted to express my gratitude for all the rich and profound knowledge I’ve learnt from Annie, so I finally purchased some of her amazing art prints from her Etsy shop, DreamyMoons. Inspired by the universe, each piece is absolutely gorgeous and unique. I’m overjoyed with my new posters!

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2. After years of being a Les Mills gym member, this week I SOLD MY MEMBERSHIP! I will miss the energetic, vibrant atmosphere and weekly BODYPUMP, which truly helped me become a stronger person physically and mentally. But I feel much lighter not paying almost $100 per month for my membership and like I’ve done something that is actually beneficial, financially sensible and adds value to my life. (Fun fact: with the extra $100 per month, I can literally take out a decent loan to renovate my house!)

Now, the possibilities are open. I could save for a treadmill, run on the street/at the park/on the beach, or join CityFitness, who is 24/7, closer to me, and still offers weight + yoga/pilates group fitnesses classes at less than half the price.


3. My beau and I are both lovers of Japanese food, so for date night, I chose the luxurious Tokyo Bay in Takapuna. Right by the beach, the restaurant is ambient, sophisticated and cozy, with an absolutely delicious menu. We loved the miso eggplant, karaage chicken, massive bento boxes and dessert. 

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4. I saw Lorde live for her Melodrama World Tour! You can read about my experience here.




5. I saw Yumi Zouma live for the second time this year. Following their tour of Europe, the UK, and Japan, my favourite New Zealand band have made their way back home for their Willowbank tour. They played my favourites – Persephone, Depths Pt.1, December, and Alena! 

There’s something about their music; the chill, synth-pop beat and original, authentic lyrics. Even among the heavy smell of smoke and perfume, it was the most incredible feeling dancing to them live again and seeing people form a circle during Alena (only ‘real fans’ know why :P). Willowbank + Lorde’s Melodrama = pretty much my 2017 soundtrack.




6. I added a touch of sophistication to my home with these gorgeous new coasters from Cathy Pope, who I discovered from Good magazine. Made with real agate dyed pink with a gold rim, I love having slices of the earth’s DNA on my tabletops! 




7. I had such a blast at Wanderlust 108! An ‘all-out celebration of mindful living’, the day consisted of a 5k triathlon (ie. three laps around Western Springs Lake!), over an hour of yoga to find our rhythm, and finally, a meditation session alongside thousands of people. All this plus healthy, delicious food, a little market, and bonus activities such as hooping, essential oils, music, aerial yoga & acroyoga. It was an incredible and worthwhile day to focus on mindfulness, wellness, connecting with nature with each other, and self-love!

This was my favourite song played during yoga. Love the passionate but peaceful energy.


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My Personal Home Buying Experience

Finances, Personal

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Earlier this year I ticked off one of my bucket list goals: to buy a freehold property. And by tick off, I mean literally – it’s long been written in my precious Bucket List Journal, alongside goals like ‘Go to Japan’, ‘Try anti-gravity yoga’, ‘Go to Tomorrowland’ and ‘Fly a plane’. Needless to say it was a dream come true!

After I shared the news, I got asked more or less the same questions from people. So today I’d love to share my home buying experience and what it was like, from a personal perspective. (NOT advice.)

First, KiwiSaver.

I’d read up on how KiwiSaver can help you to buy your first home. I researched the eligibility criteria and house caps, then went ahead and applied for the HomeStart Grant. Since I’d been contributing to KiwiSaver for way over three years, I was confident I’d be accepted. When I received my pre-approval, I was ecstatic!

However, as an individual, it was tough for me to find a house within the Auckland house caps – $600,000 at the time for an existing property or $650,000 for a new build. I was devastated after doing endless searches on TradeMe and never finding any houses that weren’t in the middle of nowhere, and not apartments with bodycorps.

Speaking of TradeMe, I immediately subscribed to their email lists. You can do this by doing a search – simply choose your region, local district, price range and property type. After, you want to click “Save This Search”, then, “Email me every day / every 3 days / every week”. Voila!

I repeated this email subscription process everywhere, including Property Press where you can subscribe to the latest listings in the area you’re looking.

I’d looked for a year or so before I gave up. Then I started looking again. This time, after months of searching on the Shore, I’d fallen in love with multiple properties. I loved a gorgeous, modern unit in Hillcrest, ignoring the inconvenience of a tandem garage (not a double garage – a tandem, where one car parks in front of the other! Plus there was no rain cover between the garage and house). Then I loved this chic little unit in Milford, stylishly furnished with white & grey decor with a nice front and back yard.

On the same day I went to Milford, I almost wasn’t going to stop by another property – one in Glenfield. But luckily, I did. And it wasn’t a unit this time, it was a freestanding house! 

Being unfurnished, it didn’t look as attractive at first glance, so I wasn’t instantly as in love with it as I was with the previous properties. But it was wonderful. Two generous & spacious bedrooms with an open lounge & dining room area. A carport that provides cover to the house. A kitchen with a lot of drawers, shelves & cupboards. I found out later that a previous owner was a cabinet maker. It also had a front yard and deck, big enough to fit an outdoor dining table and an outdoor lounge set. Plus it was in a fantastic location close to shops, food, bars, doctors, dentists, pharmacies, public transport & more!

By now I still wasn’t 100% sure on which house I’d go for, but it was time to prepare for something else: the mortgage.

The first thing I did was play around on my bank’s mortgage calculators. Your bank will have one, that they may call a home loan calculator. It works out approximately how much you could borrow based on your income, assets, debts & expenses, plus what your repayments could be. I experimented a few times to get a good idea.

I called my bank to ask for an appointment. I asked, “I’d like to find out if I can get a mortgage – if I can, how much I can borrow, and if I can’t, what I need to be able to.” At the time, I also had debt, which I disclosed straight away.

I was taken care of by the friendliest, most down to earth banking advisor. She told me my debt wasn’t actually very much (what a relief). Then she sent me an email, with an application form which I completed and sent back with documents.

The next day she got back to me with good news: a conditional approval! Also called ‘pre-approval’, this allowed me to look at houses within a certain price range!

I remember her saying, “This is great news, I am so excited for you!” It made a huge difference and is clearly something I still remember about one of the most significant purchases of my life.

The amount I could borrow was fairly accurate to the amount the online home loan calculator had told me, give or take a few thousand. I was impressed.

After deciding on the house, it was time to negotiate. My house wasn’t on sale as auction, but had an asking price. I’d cross-referenced different websites to get a rough figure of what the house was worth today, so I knew what was reasonable. That night, the real estate agent went back and forth between me and the vendor while we negotiated the price. I increased my offer twice before I made my third and final offer. The vendor decided to sleep on it, which made that night the most nerve-wracking night ever.

But the next day came and they accepted!

Now it was on a conditional offer and I was to set the conditions. It’s up to you what you choose, and for me it was 1) a building inspection report and 2) a meth test. These were to be done within a certain time frame, which could be 7 days, 10 days or any other time frame agreed between you and the vendor.

Both passed satisfactorily, which meant that it was now UNCONDITIONAL!!!

I went into the bank to get the mortgage set up and finalised. Personally I preferred the certainty and ability to budget with a fixed mortgage rather than floating mortgage, while half fixed, half floating was also an option. A huge bonus is that I’m still allowed to make extra repayments whenever I want, and I have taken advantage of this, incurring costs of only cents. (I’ve been on fixed for 8 months now and it’s working very well.)

The bank’s condition was that we purchased home insurance which was easy peasy as I worked for an insurance company at the time and got a discount. A lot of people are confused as to what to insure their home for. It’s not how much you bought the house for, but the rebuilding cost – how much you would need to rebuild the house if it was say, lost in a fire, excluding land value. You can get a professional quality surveyor or find an online calculator – what you want is not a market valuation but a rebuild cost valuation.

The good news is, the rebuilding cost is usually significantly less than the purchase price – keeping your insurance premiums as low as possible. You also earn discounts for having a securely monitored alarm, having an owner occupied property, and combining with your contents & car insurance (all of which I did, of course)!

The deposit was paid (mine was 10%) while the settlement date had been decided earlier (on the night of negotiation). On the day, the rest of the funds was paid from the bank to my solicitor, which was then paid to the vendor’s solicitor. The official sale & purchase agreement was emailed through, naming me as the owner of the house in North Auckland (so surreal!). What was left: meet up with the real estate agent to get the keys (!!!), and importantly, arrange for power, water & internet.

In the end, I didn’t actually use my KiwiSaver HomeStart Grant because the price was above the house caps, but what I did make good use of was my KiwiSaver First Home Withdrawal. You can withdraw your entire balance minus $1000, and that’s exactly what I did – starting my retirement savings almost all over again, but it was worth it. I mean, I have a place to truly call home!

Now that I’ve gone through the whole home buying process, here are just a few things I wish I’d done earlier:

+ Saved more to borrow less – a pretty obvious but crucial one!

+ Had a higher contribution rate in my KiwiSaver to begin with. I was on the default of 3%, and have now increased it to the maximum of 8% – just in case I decide to emigrate (among other things).

+ Been more patient and practical. It takes time to find The One. Consider all factors and look at the details (ceilings, walls, window sills etc) and bring your family/friends/partner with you to get a second opinion. You might notice different things the other person didn’t see!

+ Considered a buyer’s agent – like a real estate agent, except they work for you and liaise on your behalf – potentially saving you many time consuming drives, phone calls, negotiations and headaches. I may sound rosy about my experience, because I want people reading this to feel optimistic, but I’m very cautious about the honesty & integrity of real estate agents.

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading about my home buying experience and that this was helpful to you! Check out the resources I used below:

+ Housing New Zealand – Ways We Can Help You to Own a Home (including KiwiSaver)

+ Trade Me Property and Property Press – remember to save your search + sign up for email alerts if you wish!

+ Sorted Mortgage Calculator – I used my own bank’s one, but to be impartial I’ll link this one, which is just as helpful. It’s a good idea to shop around the banks to see if they have any special promotional rates or rewards currently going – who knows, you might score a holiday, earn extra cashback or score a discounted banking + insurance package!

If you are an aspiring homeowner, good luck, and I wish you all the best!

PS. Stay tuned for a home tour 😉

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How I Saved $232 a Month While Looking for a Job

Conscious Consumerism, Finances, Lifestyle, Minimalism, Personal


Hello friends,

Today I wanted to share with you how I reduced my monthly expenses, and talk about whether I’ve noticed much difference in my life. I’d like to thank a brief period of unemployment that motivated me to make these positive changes, some of which were only temporary – if it weren’t for my need to reduce expenses, I might’ve never truly evaluated where my money was going, and what was important to me. 

When I proof-read this to my partner, he shot me a hilariously sarcastic look and said, “You were just wasting a lot of money to begin with.” And I was. So while I write this, know I understand that everyone is different, and this post might not be relevant to those of you who have been wiser with money. But even if this post is irrelevant to 80% of its readers, to the 20% of readers it is relevant to, it may be helpful and inspiring. I certainly hope so!

Here’s exactly what I cut back on.

Spotify Premium | This was the first to go, as it’s obviously a want and not a need. By cancelling my subscription, I saved $14.99 NZD a month. Not a bad start.

Have I noticed much? No. I still use Spotify, but less. Since I noticed that I always listened to the same artists & albums, instead I support them and listen ad-free to their CD’s. It’s a win-win in many ways. Having a tangible piece of work made with love, sweat, inspiration and creativity, is priceless. I love the original artwork, the lyric booklets, the quirky sentimental photographs, the artists’ personal thank-you’s – all of it feels so much more authentic than a digital music library. And buying a new CD for $20-25 every couple of months only when I’ve actually found something I love? Definitely beats paying $15 every single month.

LinkedIn Premium (Career) | I was subscribed to this service because I enjoyed using LinkedIn Learning – the courses are well structured with helpful tutors and chapter quizzes to build your knowledge. You can find anything, from photography, to graphic design, to human resources, to leadership, to writing.. The possibilities are endless! Though I loved it, unsubscribing saved me $40.24 NZD a month. 

Have I noticed much? No. Shortly after unsubscribing, I subscribed to more Youtubers of lifestyle, organisation, productivity, minimalism, zero waste and personal finance. I also signed up to a two month free trial of Skillshare, another online learning platform full of exciting courses – plus earned extra months by signing friends up to a free trial! I’m divided – both LinkedIn Learning and Skillshare are great, so I’ll do an update further down the track as to my choice of online course self-learning.

Mobile Phone Data | After my mortgage & car, my phone is one of the priciest expenses. Looking at where I could save, I realised I had a ton of carryover data – about 30GB – which is enough to last me months! Reducing my data from 7GB to 2.5GB saved me $30 NZD a month.

Have I noticed much? Not at all – especially with my change of job and change of habits. I spend less time on my phone and when I do, I usually have WiFi.

Office 365 | I’d used only Word and Excel all my life in school & work, so when it came to wanting to type things up at home, they were my first choice – but I didn’t think of looking around for better, more affordable or even free services. I was so determined to use Office to be more productive, but I just never used it as much as I thought I would – so unsubscribing saved me $10 NZD a month.

Have I noticed much? No. After unsubscribing, I searched for something like ‘best free writing apps”. It took a bit of experimenting, but I ended up loving the brilliant WPS Office, which comes with Writer, Spreadsheets & Presentation, and have used it ever since. It does absolutely everything I need it to, like formatting text & pictures and converting to PDF. (And for what? Just putting up with only one ad every time it opens – that’s all!)

Gym Membership | I’ve always been part of Les Mills because the atmosphere is bright, energetic and colourful, with brilliant classes and motivating instructors. Luckily, they have an option for you to suspend your membership for up to 90 days per membership year, at no cost. I took the opportunity to temporarily suspend my membership and fortnightly payment of $49, saving me a whopping $98 NZD a month.

Have I noticed much? Yes. I miss the runner’s high after a long treadmill workout, and feeling strong, refreshed and energised after a BODYPUMP sweat session. Unfortunately I’m not motivated to run at all in the drab winter weather. So while I’ve balanced out my lack of gym exercise with Blogilates, free yoga sessions (offered by Lululemon and Golden Yogi every Sunday morning!) and eating healthy foods, I’m delighted to go back soon.

Mortgage | When I first took out my home loan, I was overjoyed that I could change my regular payments online with just a few clicks. Rounding up my fortnightly mortgage payments and increasing them by only $19.49 saved me 2 years & 7 months, hence I went ahead and did it. So when I really needed to stick to a budget, I reversed the change – saving $38.98 NZD a month.

Since earning a stable income again, I increased it by $79.49 a fortnight – $158.98 a month – saving me 8 years and 3 months. Hooray!

So how much did I manage to save?

The things I managed to save on indefinitely: $95.24 a month.

Including the things I saved on temporarily (gym, mortgage): $232.22 a month.

The experience of reducing my monthly expenses wasn’t frustrating. In fact, it was enlightening and eye-opening. Much like decluttering my physical belongings, I felt lighter. Not only do I have less bills and less to remember, my life feels, once again, more intentional, devoting and allocating my time and money to bigger & better things!

I hope this has been helpful to you, and thank you for reading!

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